Wedding story

I love weddings but it is rare that I can be easily impressed no matter how grand, artistic, extravagant or expensive they are. Please allow me to tell you about a memorable wedding that my husband and I had the privilege to witness a year ago.

The heavens opened wide that morning. I meant literally; it was a downpour. It was supposed to be a summer wedding in July but it was held in England, where weather is a source of fascination on a day-to-day basis.

This particular wedding was very special and different. The family and friends of the couple were all well-dressed but I did not notice a hint of self-importance from anyone. The wedding was not about the groom; he appeared very relaxed and tranquil in his suit. It was not all about the beautiful bride either. She walked along the aisle stunning in her lovely ivory dress, with a tiara adorning her hair — but the lady behind the veil was not the sole (or main) focus of the event.

Rather, throughout this wonderful moment of their lives, the couple chose to glorify Jesus. The songs were carefully picked signifying the love, hope and happiness that is found in Christ alone. The Bible reading and message focused on the basics of marriage: mutuality of love, contentment, faithfulness to one another and hope in Christ (Hebrews 13:1-6).


The favours were ‘Christmas crackers’. Inside these were small gifts but more importantly, a Bible verse written for every guest. The wedding speeches were words of humour-infused sweetness, but Christ was never forgotten by every speaker.

My reflections brought me to question, “How often do we hear couples say, ‘We would like to have a Christ-centered wedding’?”

Before everyone becomes very pre-occupied about the dresses, flowers, rings, guests, cakes, catering, drinks, suits, music, candles, bridal registers, speeches; would it be more appropriate to desire for a union founded upon the love of Christ more than anything else? The key to blissful wedded life is about sharing a life together where Christ is present, is it not?

This particular wedding was not all about tangible things but it will be remembered by  those present because the overflowing love of Christ was there.

(A reflection of a Christian wedding held in Warwickshire, England; originally written two days after the event.)


4 thoughts on “Wedding story

  1. unfilteredmomma

    I love weddings too! But I noticed they are getting so much bigger and grander, with so much going on, that it’s hard to tell if the couple are actually having a great time or just waiting for it to end. At nakakaloka na din ang budget! Lol. But a wedding such as you described, that would be a beautiful one. I missed a friend’s wedding that I know had that same atmosphere over the entire ceremony – they are believers who met through ministry. The day the man asked the girl to be his girlfriend was the same day he asked her to be his wife. Ang sweet diba? 🙂

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    1. MT Post author

      Wow, ang sweet naman! 🙂 Yes, getting married is getting more expensive — syempre in favour ang wedding planners kasi labor sa manila yun. Haha. I am not against big weddings at all, it’s just that sometimes, everyone gets too busy to the point that they forget the main reason of having the celebration at all!


      1. unfilteredmomma

        me too, not against big weddings naman especially if the couple can afford. that’s their joy. pero naaawa ako pag kitang kita mo na parang lost na sila in their own wedding. and true, when the meaning of the covenant of marriage is lost, sayang naman ang effort nila.



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